BBW fetish or fancy?

Big and Beautiful.
BBW
Plus size
Queen size
We, they, are everywhere.
The issue is obvious---overeating.
Stigmatized, criticized, ostracized,
Still needing love and resenting the fact that it's so hard to find.
OKAY so there are men, apparently, who like BBWs.
Who fancy the lush, plush, huggable, squeezable oversized sex goddesses.
Why are those men viewed as freaks?
We don't view breast men as freaks.
Or thigh men as freaks.
Or men who like slender, wispy women as freaks.
Why are BBW fanciers considered freaks even by the women they love?
I have to say, I met one such man recently. Even I looked at him sideways, wondering what was wrong with him.